{"id":1221,"date":"2025-01-07T03:59:55","date_gmt":"2025-01-07T03:59:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/?p=1221"},"modified":"2025-01-07T03:59:55","modified_gmt":"2025-01-07T03:59:55","slug":"my-name-is-ghazaleh-he-burned-me-for-saying-no-be-my-voice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/2025\/01\/07\/my-name-is-ghazaleh-he-burned-me-for-saying-no-be-my-voice\/","title":{"rendered":"My Name is Ghazaleh. He Burned Me for Saying &#8216;No.&#8217; Be My Voice!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By: Rezvan Moghaddam<br>My name is Ghazaleh, a 27-year-old woman from Naysar, east of Sanandaj. If you\u2019re<br>hearing my story today, I may no longer be alive, but my voice and story must be heard.<br>Two years ago, I decided to rebuild my life. I divorced my husband and started an<br>independent life with my 11-year-old daughter. I worked hard as a seamstress,<br>managing my life with pride. Every day, I reminded myself: &#8220;You can do this. You have<br>the right to be free, to make decisions, and to live under no one\u2019s control.&#8221;<br>But nearby, there was a man who couldn\u2019t accept my freedom. A vendor who repeatedly<br>proposed to me, and each time, I respectfully but firmly said, &#8220;No.&#8221; I didn\u2019t want to enter<br>a relationship where I\u2019d lose my autonomy. Yet, he persisted\u2014his insistence was<br>exhausting and dangerous.<br>On the day of the incident, I went to work as usual, thinking it would be an ordinary day.<br>But he came, carrying a jug of gasoline. A brief argument ensued, followed by his<br>eruption of fury\u2014and then the flames. My body burned, my soul wept, but I refused to<br>surrender. In the ambulance, I was conscious for only a few moments. During those<br>fleeting moments, I managed to tell my father who committed this crime.<br>I burned, but my story must not be forgotten. I am a symbol of women\u2019s right to say<br>&#8220;No.&#8221; The right to choose, to reject, and to live life as they wish. Men who see a<br>woman\u2019s &#8220;No&#8221; as an insult to their masculinity need change and education.<br>Today, I am no longer here, but this voice, this story, must echo everywhere:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women have the right to say &#8220;No.&#8221; They have the right to be free. They have the<br>right to live.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1>Stop_honor_Killings_Campaign<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>DomesticViolence<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>Women_Are_Not_Property<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>Naysar_Sanandaj<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>Ghazaleh_Haddoudi<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Follow news in the Stop honor Killings Campaign Telegram group:<br>https:\/\/t.me\/stophonorkilling<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop honor Killings Campaign<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By: Rezvan MoghaddamMy name is Ghazaleh, a 27-year-old woman from Naysar, east of Sanandaj. If you\u2019rehearing my story today, I may no longer be alive, but my voice and story must be heard.Two years&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1222,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[352,5],"tags":[21,305,284,172,199],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1221"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1221"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1221\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1223,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1221\/revisions\/1223"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1222"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}