{"id":1495,"date":"2025-07-28T04:33:50","date_gmt":"2025-07-28T04:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/?p=1495"},"modified":"2025-07-28T04:33:51","modified_gmt":"2025-07-28T04:33:51","slug":"honor-killing-under-the-pretense-of-honor-reproducing-patriarchy-from-home-to-society-murder-over-a-virtual-connection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/2025\/07\/28\/honor-killing-under-the-pretense-of-honor-reproducing-patriarchy-from-home-to-society-murder-over-a-virtual-connection\/","title":{"rendered":"Honor killing under the pretense of \u201chonor\u201d: reproducing patriarchy from home to society, murder over a virtual connection"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>By: Rezvan Moghaddam<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A 17-year-old boy in Mashhad killed another boy with 10 knife stabs after seeing a<br>message and photo from him on his sister phone, a shocking crime at the intersection of<br>gender-based violence, honor control, and digital illiteracy.<br>On June 28, 2025, a 17-year-old teenager named Mehdi P. committed a killing in the<br>city of Mashhad that encapsulates all the elements of an honor-based crime:<br>uncontrolled rage, a possessive view of women in the family, carrying a knife, trial<br>without due process, and extreme violence in response to even the slightest sign of a<br>teenage girl\u2019s emotional connection.<br>This tragedy occurred when Mehdi, after seeing texts and photos from a neighborhood<br>boy on his 14-year-old sister\u2019s phone, instead of speaking with her or seeking guidance<br>from his family, directly confronted the teenage boy and stabbed him more than ten<br>times.<br>What\u2019s even more disturbing is that Mehdi, in an interview, stated:<br>\u201cI myself was in a relationship with a girl and intended to marry her.\u201d<br>This confession reveals the deep contradiction in honor-based cultures: where a boy\u2019s<br>relationship with a girl is considered a \u201cright,\u201d but his sister\u2019s connection with another<br>boy is a capital \u201ccrime.\u201d<br>In Iran and many other countries in the region, the concept of \u201chonor\u201d has been<br>structurally and dangerously weaponized to control the bodies and behavior of women<br>and girls. Teenagers raised in this environment, lacking education on human rights,<br>justice, and conflict resolution, make fatal decisions in moments of rage. The young<br>killer in this case admitted that he didn\u2019t know the law or the right way to respond.<br>In his confession, he says he saw the boy\u2019s photo on his social media profile \u2014 a clear<br>symbol of the absence of media literacy and sexual education in schools and families.<br>Digital space, which could be a platform for education and communication, has in the<br>absence of formal education become a violent court of judgment and control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Interview with Mehdi by Khorasan Newspaper:<br>\uf0b7 What is your name? Mehdi P.<br>\uf0b7 What year were you born? 2007<br>\uf0b7 Are you a student? Yes, I was studying in 12th grade (high school).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uf0b7 Where do you live in Mashhad? On Resalat Boulevard, Hematabad<br>neighborhood.<br>\uf0b7 Did you work during summer breaks? Yes, sometimes I worked in<br>construction and sometimes at the fruit market.<br>\uf0b7 Why did you commit this crime?<br>The night before, I grabbed my sister\u2019s phone and saw messages and photos<br>from a boy. I got &#8220;honor-bound&#8221; angry and lost control.<br>\uf0b7 Did you know the boy you killed?<br>No, I had seen him in the neighborhood, but we weren\u2019t acquainted.<br>\uf0b7 How did you know he was the one in contact with your sister?<br>I saw his photo on his social media profile.<br>\uf0b7 Why did you decide to kill him?<br>I didn\u2019t even realize what I was doing! I got so angry that I couldn\u2019t think straight. I<br>went to him the next morning as he was heading to work. I said, \u201cWhy are you<br>bothering someone\u2019s honor?\u201d He replied, \u201cIt\u2019s none of your business.\u201d I said,<br>\u201cThat girl is my sister!\u201d Then I stabbed him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uf0b7 Are you regretful?<br>Very much! Now that I\u2019ve been arrested, I realize I made a mistake. I should\u2019ve<br>thought about the consequences.<br>\uf0b7 What would you have done instead?<br>I should\u2019ve consulted older people or asked for help to see how to handle such<br>things.<br>\uf0b7 What were your future plans after high school?<br>I wanted to join the military and serve in the army.<br>\uf0b7 Were you yourself in a relationship?<br>Yes, I had recently met a girl.<br>\uf0b7 Then why did you kill someone for being in a relationship with your sister?<br>I intended to marry the girl I was seeing!<br>\uf0b7 What do you think caused this crime?<br>First, carrying a knife! If I hadn\u2019t had a knife, maybe this wouldn\u2019t have happened.<br>But more importantly, we don\u2019t understand how to use digital space or manage<br>street relationships. I wish someone had guided me!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this case, the 14-year-old sister remains voiceless. We hear nothing of her wishes,<br>feelings, or choices, nor do we see any protection or advocacy from legal institutions.<br>This silencing of women and girls, especially in matters that directly threaten their lives<br>or those of their loved ones, reflects the deeply patriarchal and violent structure of our<br>judicial, social, and educational systems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1>#StophonorKillingsCampaign<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#SafetyForWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#WomenHaveTheRightToLive<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#NoToViolenceAgainstWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#IslamicRepublicIsResponsibleForWomen\u2019sMurders<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#honorKilling_Khorasan<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#NoToMisogynisticCulture<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Follow news in the Stop honor Killings Campaign Telegram group:<br>https:\/\/t.me\/stophonorkilling<br>Support the Stop honor Killings Campaign with Your Donations via PayPal:<br>https:\/\/paypal.me\/stophonorkillings?country.x=US&amp;locale.x=en_US<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop honor Killings Campaign<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By: Rezvan Moghaddam A 17-year-old boy in Mashhad killed another boy with 10 knife stabs after seeing amessage and photo from him on his sister phone, a shocking crime at the intersection ofgender-based violence,&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1496,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,6],"tags":[21,305,284,172,199],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1495"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1497,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495\/revisions\/1497"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}