{"id":1531,"date":"2025-09-01T09:41:05","date_gmt":"2025-09-01T09:41:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/?p=1531"},"modified":"2025-09-01T09:41:05","modified_gmt":"2025-09-01T09:41:05","slug":"patriarchal-mentality-and-the-killing-of-women-sheida-kardegar-was-killed-for-rejecting-a-suitor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/2025\/09\/01\/patriarchal-mentality-and-the-killing-of-women-sheida-kardegar-was-killed-for-rejecting-a-suitor\/","title":{"rendered":"Patriarchal mentality and the killing of women: Sheida Kardegar was killed for rejecting a suitor"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> Rezvan Moghadda :   Sheida Kardegar, a 15-year-old girl from the village of \u201cDarunkola Sharqi\u201d in Babol<br>County, was stabbed to death on the evening of Monday, June 10, 2025, by a man<br>whose marriage proposal she had refused.<br>This crime, like many similar killings, has its roots in the victim\u2019s basic and human<br>demand for the \u201cright to her own body and life.\u201d However, unlike more common cases,<br>the killer was not a family member but a stranger who, simply because his proposal was<br>rejected, decided to kill a teenage girl.<br>The method of Sheida\u2019s murder once again demonstrates that in patriarchal societies,<br>women and girls are exposed to violence and death in all roles\u2014whether as a wife,<br>sister, mother, or even as a girl who has not yet made choices for her future. In such<br>cultures, a woman\u2019s \u201cno,\u201d even to a man who has no relation to her, is interpreted as a<br>threat to male pride and dominance, and a man\u2019s response to that \u201cno\u201d is often deadly<br>violence.<br>A serious question arises: if Sheida had agreed to marry this man, how would life have<br>unfolded under the same roof with someone who could not tolerate hearing \u201cno\u201d? What<br>kinds of violence would he have inflicted in everyday life and in their marital<br>relationship? Did her family or society have the capacity or will to protect her?<br>The experience of thousands of women in Iran shows that many of them continue to<br>face physical, psychological, and sexual violence even after marriage, and in many<br>cases, the threat of death still looms over their lives. Yet, when violence occurs within<br>the framework of marriage, families and society often treat it as a \u201cprivate matter,\u201d<br>leaving the victim alone with the justification that \u201cthis was her own choice.\u201d<br>The killing of Sheida Kardegar is a clear example of the violent structures of patriarchy,<br>which systematically endanger the security and life of women and girls by denying them<br>the right to make choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1>#StopHonorKillingsCampaign<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#SecurityForWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#WomenHaveTheRightToLive<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#NoToViolenceAgainstWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#IslamicRepublicResponsibleForWomenMurders<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#SheidaKardegarBabol<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>#NoToMisogynisticCulture<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Follow news in the Stop honor Killings Campaign Telegram group:<br>https:\/\/t.me\/stophonorkilling<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Support the Stop honor Killings Campaign with Your Donations via PayPal:<br>https:\/\/paypal.me\/stophonorkillings?country.x=US&amp;locale.x=en_US<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop honor Killings Campaign<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rezvan Moghadda : Sheida Kardegar, a 15-year-old girl from the village of \u201cDarunkola Sharqi\u201d in BabolCounty, was stabbed to death on the evening of Monday, June 10, 2025, by a manwhose marriage proposal she&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1532,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,5,6],"tags":[21,305,284,172,199],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1531"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1533,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531\/revisions\/1533"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1532"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}