{"id":1611,"date":"2026-01-01T04:04:42","date_gmt":"2026-01-01T04:04:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/?p=1611"},"modified":"2026-01-01T04:04:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-01T04:04:42","slug":"family-dispute-the-official-language-used-to-conceal-obedienceand-domination-based-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/2026\/01\/01\/family-dispute-the-official-language-used-to-conceal-obedienceand-domination-based-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cFamily Dispute\u201d: The Official Language Used to Conceal Obedienceand Domination-Based Violence"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>On Friday, December 19, 2025, a 70-year-old man in Mashhad murdered his 60-year-<br>old wife by repeatedly striking her on the head with an axe, blows that shattered her<br>skull. The brutality did not end there: after killing her, the perpetrator tore open the<br>victim\u2019s abdomen with scissors and even attempted to sever her legs with the axe. This<br>level of naked violence is not the result of a momentary altercation, but rather the<br>exercise of absolute power over the body of a woman who, within the framework of the<br>family, was deprived of any effective protection.<br>After committing the crime, the perpetrator turned himself in to the police and, in his<br>confession, cited the motive for the killing as \u201cdifferences and arguments over private<br>and marital relations.\u201d He explicitly refers to an issue that, within the legal structure of<br>the Islamic Republic of Iran, is defined through concepts such as tamkin (obedience)\u2014a<br>concept grounded not in consent, but in submission and coercion.<br>Nevertheless, official media have reported this horrific killing under the vague and<br>neutralizing label of \u201cfamily disputes and emotional issues\u201d\u2014a term whose function is<br>not to inform, but to sanitize violence and erase its structural roots. A \u201cdispute\u201d only has<br>meaning when both parties possess equal power and agency; whereas here we are<br>confronted with a relationship in which the law officially grants men decision-making<br>power over women\u2019s bodies.<br>In a system where sexual obedience is defined as a woman\u2019s legal duty, a woman\u2019s<br>body becomes a domain of male ownership, and the private sphere of the family turns<br>into a zone beyond oversight and accountability. Violence in such a context is not an<br>exception, but a tool for enforcing a patriarchal order in which a woman\u2019s disobedience,<br>even in its simplest form, can lead to lethal punishment.<br>This killing is neither a \u201cfamily matter\u201d nor an \u201cemotional conflict.\u201d It is the stark<br>manifestation of unequal power, discriminatory law, and a culture that treats obedience<br>as virtue and violence as a man\u2019s implicit right. When the law does not speak of consent<br>and instead institutionalizes coercion, femicide becomes a predictable and recurring<br>outcome. What occurred is a clear example of systematic femicide crime that does not<br>happen in a vacuum but is the direct product of a structure that deems women\u2019s bodies<br>controllable, punishable, and ultimately disposable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1>SecurityForWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>Mashhad_KhorasanProvince<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>WomenHaveTheRightToLife<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1>NoToViolenceAgainstWomen<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Follow news in the Stop honor Killings Campaign Telegram group:<br>https:\/\/t.me\/stophonorkilling<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Support the Stop honor Killings Campaign with Your Donations via PayPal:<br>https:\/\/paypal.me\/stophonorkillings?country.x=US&amp;locale.x=en_US<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop honor Killings Campaign<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Friday, December 19, 2025, a 70-year-old man in Mashhad murdered his 60-year-old wife by repeatedly striking her on the head with an axe, blows that shattered herskull. The brutality did not end there:&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1596,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,5,6],"tags":[21,305,284,403,172,199],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1611"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1611"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1611\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1612,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1611\/revisions\/1612"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1611"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1611"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stophonorkillings.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1611"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}